There is an incomplete misconception about a woman’s place when it comes to her husband. I’m sure you have heard statements like “behind every successful man is a woman” and the more new-age version which says “beside every successful man is a woman”. Well both statements are true, but are only a fifth of the truth.
There are 5 positions that a woman takes around her husband, all equally important and have their appropriate time and function. Please note that I am referring to a husband, not your “man” “boyfriend” “friendrelationship” whichever other terms are used these days. I want to refer to the Husband because only he has the ability to allow you and expose you to these 5 positions, besides I would never encourage any woman to throw these “precious pearls to pigs”, wasting her virtues.
Position 1- On his RIGHT side 
This is his hand of strength, his arm of trust and his hand of rulership/leadership. Here you will serve his emotions and ego. You rule and reign with him as his Queen.
Position 2 – On his LEFT side
His hand of weakness and his vulnerable arm, shielding his heart. On this side you’re his shoulder, his comfort, confidante and advisor. Serve him well.
Position 3- BEHIND him
This is his blind spot. In this position you have his back, you look out for him, support him and trust him to lead you.
Position 4- In FRONT of him
You are his warrior there are battles that you need to fight on his behalf, sometimes he will never know about them because most of these battles will be fought in the closet on your knees.
Position 5- BENEATH him
This is your position of submission and servitude, serving him and those around him. This is the most important position because this is the position that you fully express the woman in you, the nurturer the caregiver of life and the homemaker in you. You will realize that you will spend more time in this position than the others.
Throughout your marriage you will rotate between these positions as your relationship 
goes through its seasons.
Lots of love in the new season… have a lovely 2018.
Hazel Namponya
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